and after about 4days he said hes sorry, and we talked on the phone he said no other girl cus he just get interested in a girl at his friend cafe but he said yesterday he found out that this girl has a bf, so he felt stupid and oh yes i was so emotional and i said NO! If your heart is set on a Sagittarian man, you're in for a challenge. The talking phase of relationships has never been less stressful, because I always know where I stand. Yes also, i feel the reason i took ALL the pain was from his past too. What should this "just go for it" woman expect when dating a Pisces man? He has suffered from depression and his mum died last year which he had been grieving and trying to come to terms with. I have a friend that fits exactly what you described. I got pissed of and course him out. That was sooo mean of him and cruel. Blamed everything on me. He told me upfront he didn't want a relationship. I chose to not be called one constantly. If he shows no interest in you or in sharing about himself, he probably doesnt like you. Today makes a week. We were joined at the hip. Okay. We had it out and thought we came to a new understanding of one another. Pisces is the natural ruler of the 12th house and is ruled by the planet Neptune. our connection was unbelievable. Movin on down the road to a real man not a scared little boy. I want someone who makes me feel good (we all deserve that don't we?) Obviously there is loads more background but impossible to include everthing here and wouldn't want to totally bore you all! They will throw you over for the next new love interest. This is the combination between air and fire. They feel things deep in their hearts. I caught him trying to be sneaky & deceitful towards me& saw proof that at the exact same time he was with the other chic. It hurts so much to have someone waltz back in and tear the walls it took you a while to build in a couple of seconds. This background check and communications tracker tool will reveal all the secret stuff thats going on behind your back. I havent heard from him since that day, i called several times and no response. He was crushing on me for 4 years. He was very upset & has given me the cold shoulder since. One thing that annoys me is how hes always like "oh that girl is hot" or this girl is Hot, I totally get jealous. Where has he gone and how do I get him back? I should of cued in then. To an Aries, he only thinks about the consequence after taking actions. It's a fictional book about a black woman and man who struggle with society's views, relationships, and life in general. All I know is that, as an Aquarius, I think I know what you are talking about. However, there is a dark side in each zodiac sign. I have put forth more effort, than ever, to communicate how he is making me feel and what I would like from him. I never lie nor cheated on him but let him tell it, its a hold different story. In general, they should open up and be more tolerant to one another. Aries woman is very impatient and energetic. So we started a relationship. Moody, sensitive, pessimistic, and easily hurt. But the other qualities that make them an Aries sometimes overshadow this side of an Aries woman. Oh I love this man to my core, but I couldn't understand why he could be so contradictory (common, I'm a Gemini and I know contradiction). Not that I'm thinking he's cheating/seeing other women on me, just that these disappearing acts better be for what he says they are because I have a heck of an intuition. Slow and steady is the way to go when dating a Capricorn man. Only to just turn it off. I would have to say to the girls dating these men, I play the WIFE that doenst provide many emotional needs so he wonders to talk to you but don't get to involved cause I/Aries am the one he has always wanted to be with but life/stress take a toll and you are the "outlet" fantasy to escape from the reality he really wants but can't always make work. Don't know what to expect I really want him but feel like he's wasting my time I shoul just leave him forever & just grieve him away already. It's kind of depressing to me, actually. After about 2 months of this treatment I took a call from him and we went back out. It will be unusual for you to be chasing someone. Way back in Mar this year, I mentioned I like him to which he said that he likes me as a friend and nothing more. They will send txt's to you one minute saying how he can't wait to see you and the next he pulls a dissapearing act while he's dating others. Eventually, he may open up but will definitely not give up his secrets, even to his close family members. It can very intense as they do or say things theyll regret laterfrom punching a wall to screaming hurtful things. Aquarius guys like the girls they pretend not to like. Yes, LeeLeeits much better to move on. I had aqua males in my life too, the ones that were doing disappearing act r just having someone else. He later cofessed that I kinda look fragile, innocent,and that im always happy, and he was afraid he might destroy that. Aries understands Aquarius well and vice versa. i was falling in love wrh him! They are very independent and fun to spend time with. With this information at hand, youll find it much easier to see where this tumultuous relationship is leading, how much time to invest in it and the correct steps to win this guy over once and for all. Or maybe I am just hopelessly in love with this man!!! He has now moved to London and we met for a date. Etc etc. WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT? He lived in USA and just visited London about 7 times a year, I thought I don't want to meet and fall for you and then never get to see you. You know it's solid when he starts including you in his business plans and vision. He always felt he never did anything wrong. Her self-improvement is so captivating to Aquarius man. Lol! though, i heard males are more prone to cheat, but like i said everyone is different. But after 20 months we are still chatting. The Aquarian man is pretty fickle with his time and attention. And also remember, if he started chasing you or being with you in the first place, he saw that special spark in you and loves it. Cant handle it anymore wierdo deluxe..My girlfriend later n told me no way can you marry him he is a total control freak she said I act totall didfferent around him like walking on egg shells , and that scared her that I am so paranoid that he might not like somthingbe yourself she saidthe light bulb went on with that,,,outta here,,I have a very nice cancer barking up my tree 13 years younger think Ill go me ME for ahilewink wink. Eventually, he may open up but will definitely not give up his secrets, even to his close family members. Recently, he told me that hes loved me for years & always will. This is particularly true at work. Stay single for a while out of respect for his feelings. Every wknd he call it quits. But im in the period of Telling him how i really feel about him dissapearing.. It's never too late to begin again. Their love language is more of physical contact than anything else. If deeper details are needed, I can go through everything, privately, the signed name below, and G for email, (please put it together.) They are smooth heart criminals. I truly haven't cared for someone or wanted to give my heart to someone in so long. Something that can be seen in their temper tantrum, especially if they don't get their way. He popped up and called me like it was nothing. He was very insecure person,he always thought i was doing something wrong. We had a disagreement and things changed. Whenever having spare time, Sammie digs in photography as he really likes taking pictures. we made each other nervous, he's too good looking and i'm a little older. So if they already make up their mind, dont bother to talk them out or slow them down. Then we lost contact somehow for about 2months. I have never tried so hard to accommodate another person in a romantic relationship. He never acted like it. I so wish I had an Aquarian friend like you to help me make the right decisions. I hope you've understood that aries men will keep coming back for as long as you let them, all men will, regardless of their zodiac signs. But the Aquarian man is a direct and analytical guy. Her directness gives him direction. This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. They are very bold and always keep things their way. I guess this is how people feel about me haha! He always talked about putting a ring on it. The next day he was acting shady & I discovered he was in the company of another woman while he was ignoring me..this all happened in real time. I was a totally down with hanging with this very handsome man. Very sweet! Ask him how he truly feels about the relationship. 2002-2023 LoveToKnow Media. If I start to sense my Aqua guy is giving me the runaround I'm Audi 5000, no regrets. I left him thinking he would fight for us. So yeah, plenty of mixed messages/signals. If she's not, ask what you can do differently and take her suggestions seriously. Not giving the attention she wants will unleash this attitude. Then one day he just disappeared one me havent heard from him in 3 weeks. He has told me he usually knows if he is in love at 5-6 mos, and has only been in 2 love relationships, one lasting for 17 years, they share 2 children.I understand his need for freedom and until about a month ago we only spent 3-4 days together every 2 weeks. Aries are impulsive. A mellow Aries may ignore you, but an aggressive Aries will tell you to shut up and mind your own business. When angry or hurt they arent afraid to burn a bridge or twoeven if theyll regret it in a few hours. He did the disappearing acts & standing me up.But despite all that we still hung out & things were good cause we were friends. They both need their space and they are both often misunderstood. Now he doesnt come around as much. I live my life with or without him. and he seems ok with that it makes me feel im nothing! we both knew gow good it was and how different but now it seems hes done hes from a broken home hates his father doesnt relate to his mother. Oh, you are so right. He has been distant but drill there and when i wanted to see him before he turned on me.. he asked me why so even though i respond to his messages with no more than a simple answer and I answer his calls and do not indulge in conversation.. No, you cant have your cake and eat it too buddy. ;(. Then the next day I didn't hear from him. Maybe too devoted. An Aries woman is someone who always needs attention from her friends and family. You never need to wonder if an Aries man is hurt, hewilllet you know by the fire in his eyes and the redness in his face. I respect his wishes of him doing what hes doing and wanting what ever or who ever and thats all I can do. Despite my distance, I receive updates as to their whereabouts. my situation. My aquarius ex boyfriend is being hot and cold with me. He even told me he thought it was cool how I told him that and don't expect anything, I don't know how to take that. It seems that aquarians are selfish and they just figure a person should just deal with all the games and riddles just to be a part of thier lives. it started as an explosion! We were both in relationships with others every time we got together, but it always just felt so natural & right. If I thought I had room I would share the texts between him and I from those 2 days. That cant keep happening. Sorry but they will cheat they will do whatever to make things good 4 them including cheating ( aquarius man). Aries Ascendant - 4 years. I understand abt havin immense patience with an Aquarian man, but wht nxt? Let him express his feelings and make sure he understands that youre fine with his decisions. While they ' re usually fearless and up for anything, sickness takes everything out of them. He gave so many mixed signals in the beginning despite saying he didn't want a relationship. I just ignore him back. share your stories i am well aware of the aquarian nature being there and not there attached and then suddenly mia. Hey. The answer to these questions would help you draw a done line between a man who cares for you and keeps showing up and the one who shows up to take advantage of you. So if he doesnt like you, he will exclude you from his social orbit, either physically or energetically. When the ardent desires of an idealistic Aries woman meet a Pisces man's magical romantic nature, both are likely to become starry-eyed over each other, spontaneously fall in love, and into bed. We have gone 2-3 years with no contact whatsoever & then out of the blue he would contact me & we would get together, hang out, have sex & part ways until the next time. When an Aries man disappears, just let him be! It seem like we both had issues with cheating and me being a cancer took things very deeply. But damn when the hell do they give a damn about your feelings or do they ever? Instead, you see anger and a lot of it. To lie is very easy. My mantra has been "be patient and positive". ( I am an aries ) and my patience has been tested to a degree where I have questioned my own sanity !! and I think I will do better to date other men for a while and leave him alone. After dating for a while I felt like he wasn't making me a priority in his life and my reaction was to take off and run. How can a man be so open with their emotions say they love you, they feel like a kid again, that you make them happier than they have been in a long time. However, over the coming months we chatted. Everywhere they go, they bring their own spotlight. I have been doing this for 3years. Your email address will not be published. Keep track of the info in this article to see whether he will come back or he already lost his interest in you. Discuss Capricorn Female Disappearing Act? That doesn't make sense to me. Trust me, he's got a flock of them wanting him just as bad as you do. Cause I feel we are no longer closer just growing distant. Im at lost of words, do kno wat to do. His compassion and sensitivity softens her around the edges and makes her less selfish. I have a txt drafted to him which is simply assuring him that I like him and wanna continue but not sure we should unless he feels the same way. Luckily, having a partner like Aries woman will make him put down his guards some days. How is the Emotional Connection Between Aquarius and Aries? He won't lash out right away. Aries woman is a very strong character and is very charismatic. ok I typed it all in notepad first bc I've experienced losing it service and having to re-write everything. Ive been dating this gorgeous guy for 9 months, we hit it off straight away, met each others kids and he recently met my parents. They have plenty of things in common, but they have to work hard to find that common ground initially. I have been with an aquarious for 6 years. Personal relationship advice based on your natal and composite charts. And then move on to someone who isnt paranoid about what you do and where you are. This post is really helpful. He has a lot of people wanting his time. Reese Witherspoon, Sarah Jessica Parker, Lady Gaga, FergieAries is no doubt one of the most attractive signs. Frustrating, but very intelligent goodlooking guy with a heart of gold, can't speak on the sex yet, we haven't had it, a first of any man I've ever dated. And he is questioning my friends too, which I'm having a problem with because I don't question him about his friends. They are very independent and fun to spend time with. 8. I have learned that I can do that, and in some odd way, that is satisfying. I still don't kno whether v r datin, in a relationship etc etc and I'm afraid to ask as this myt ruin everythin(learnt frm my past). He will try to always communicate with you. Hi there! We went out for about . Hes got this thought in his head that hes not good enough for you, and sooner or later someones going to steal you away. So there you have it, five signals that hell give off when hes not into you. Your email address will not be published. Oh Aries, here is where I fail you. He analyzes everything; social situations included, and is sensitive to how he comes across. He distanced himself, but still was watching my social site and would question me any time I referred to liking someone. If their meant to be in your life they will be. Especially if their feelings are hurt and their ego is bruised. Here is a list of toxic traits of Aries that may drive people away. They are social butterflies and can never sit idly inside their homes. He got out of his truck I guess to come see why I was thereduhand when he got close to the car I just drove off, and never looked back!!! (It will probably help, better, knowing exact conversation (s). Even if it ' s just a case of the sniffles, they ' ll want to spend every moment in bed and be waited on hand and foot. Right now he is asking me to hang in there with him, he loves me more than I can imagine, but how about showing it it like he did in the beginning bent over backwards to get me, do it to keep me. luckily i'm at a point in my life where i'm not needy for attention and don't want to be with a man that hasn't really thought it out and is actually brave enough to face it. Meanwhile, you can discover the reasons why Aries men are the most prone to leaving and returning their partners by scrolling down. I've been dating this Aquarius man for 6 months. Aries doesn't want you to ask . He would start keeping you in the loop of whatever plans he has for the relationship and what not just so you give in to his desire of wanting to be with you. This is to keep you from getting too close b/c he has a life which you do not fit in too. Smh. Though the Aries woman is the dominant partner in this relationship, it's the Pisces man's willingness to be flexible, to try new things, to be led, and explore the unknown that will allow this relationship to thrive, survive, and have staying power. He keep saying that we where just friends but wash texxing and calling everyday. Because then you'll be very confused when he suddenly disappears or brushes off invitations to spend time with you. The best course of action is to let their fire of rage burn out by giving them space.