But passion can be misdirected — and it often is. True loneliness is having nobody to go on roadtrips with. None of my friends have hobbies. I have no passions, no interests and no hobbies. Not art, not crafts, not photography, no scrapbooking, sewing, no knitting, cooking, gardening, writing, painting. Do a variety of things and one of them will become a passion. True loneliness is having nobody to help you when you're down. At least not in the conventional sense anyway. I totally agree too that you ABSOLUTELY need to have hobbies and passions that do not involve your partner. To start a nice "fire" of drive and passion, you may find out you have a spark, but no combustible, or some combustible but no spark. ... Don't wait for passion to show up and then do something. … I very briefly had a partner years ago that had no hobbies going on. It’s not like I have any hobbies of my own, either. Even passions. If you are pretty relaxed when you do the activity and you don’t feel strongly about it, it’s more likely a hobby than a passion. But why, when the world is full of amazing stuff, would you choose this path? Reply Delete. Hobbies are simple. You are basically not living, but evading life, so first of all let me congratulate you! Have you ever met a person beyond middle age who has (and has never had) NO hobbies or interests? You may have lots of hobbies, but you probably only have one or two passions. No bike riding. I literally have no hobbies, and has been that way for years. So yes, I literally have no "life" . Studies have shown that having a hobby can actually make your life longer. Happiness is a choice. They’re the good stuff. Not feeling them can be a heavy weight and a source of stress. It’s definitely not normal to not leave your room, just day dream and be on your phone! Yes, something is probably wrong! No sports, tennis, golf, exercise like yoga or pilates, no swimming. It is the driving force that pushes people toward things. If you want to be miserable - that is a choice. Yes, passion is useful to have. Thread starter zav943; Start date Apr 2, 2011; zav943 Well-known member. Feeling passion or drive is a great source of fulfilment for a human. True loneliness is giving up on hobbies and passions since you have no one to share them with anyway. True loneliness is having no friends to go see that new movie with. No gym no health club. Sure, I have interests. I literally have no activities I enjoy doing, and been that way for years. If you have no passions, you just haven’t tried hard enough. I mean- nothing. https://careerpivot.com/2018/what-if-you-are-not-passionate-about-anything The key difference is when you take something seriously and are always intense about it. Who on earth wants to be someone else’s only source of happiness and they always depend on you to give them all your free time. That’s a sure sign it’s a passion. 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